Prostate massage can mean different things to different people. Some clients may be interested in external stimulation around the perineal area, while others may wish to discuss gentle internal stimulation through the rectal wall.

A respectful enquiry should establish:

• whether the £50 option is currently available;
• whether external or internal massage is offered;
• the client’s previous experience;
• preferred pressure and pace;
• glove and lubricant requirements;
• whether manual massage or a suitable toy may be considered;
• areas and activities that remain unavailable;
• relevant health or comfort concerns;
• the agreed safeword or stop signal; and
• the complete appointment price.

A client who has never experienced prostate massage should say so openly. Inexperience should not be embarrassing, and disclosing it allows the companion to decide whether she is comfortable providing a slower, more communicative introduction.

Consent and Agreed Boundaries

Consent must be voluntary, informed, specific and ongoing. Agreeing to prostate massage does not create unrestricted permission for anal penetration, toys or any other form of contact that has not been separately discussed.

Either adult may:

• limit the experience to external massage;
• decline internal stimulation;
• request gentler pressure;
• ask for additional lubricant;
• change position;
• withdraw permission for a particular technique;
• pause for a check-in; or
• end the experience completely.

The client’s comfort is important, but the companion’s boundaries have equal value. She may decline a particular position, technique, toy or degree of contact even when the £50 supplement has previously been discussed.

Physical arousal is a bodily response and should not be interpreted as consent. Silence, previous experience, a confirmed appointment or payment must never replace clear agreement.

Safewords and Non-Verbal Signals

A clear communication system can help both adults feel more confident, particularly during internal massage or when the client is in an unfamiliar position.

The traffic-light system may be used:

Green means the pressure, movement and contact feel comfortable.

Amber means slow down, reduce the pressure, make an adjustment or pause for a check-in.

Red means stop immediately and withdraw carefully.

Ordinary phrases such as “gentler,” “less pressure,” “pause” and “stop” are equally valid and must be respected without hesitation.

A non-verbal signal may also be agreed, such as raising an open hand or tapping a surface a set number of times. This can be useful if speaking becomes difficult because of positioning or an emotional response.

Pulling away, becoming suddenly tense or attempting to change position should prompt an immediate pause, even when the agreed safeword has not been used.

Trust, Vulnerability and Sexual Wellbeing

Prostate massage can involve emotional as well as physical vulnerability. A client may feel self-conscious about their body, nervous about how they will respond or concerned that their interest will be judged.

From a sex-positive therapeutic perspective, curiosity about prostate stimulation does not determine a person’s sexual orientation. Physical pleasure and personal identity are separate aspects of human sexuality.

A considerate companion should not ridicule nervousness, inexperience or an unexpected physical response. The client should show the same consideration and recognise that the companion remains an equal participant with her own comfort and limitations.

Trust develops when both adults know that they can communicate honestly, change the pace and stop without criticism. The experience should be based on exploration and mutual comfort rather than pressure, endurance or performance.

Hygiene and Barrier Protection

Good hygiene is especially important where internal massage is being considered.

Preparation may include:

• thoroughly washed hands;
• short, smooth fingernails;
• removal of rings and sharp jewellery;
• a new single-use glove;
• clean towels and bedding;
• suitable lubricant; and
• properly cleaned equipment where applicable.

A glove should be changed before touching another body area. Any toy should be cleaned before and after use, and a fresh barrier should be used when equipment is shared or moved between different body areas. Anal contact carries a higher risk of transmitting some sexually transmitted infections than many other sexual activities, making barriers, cleaning and careful handling particularly important.

Hygiene measures can reduce contamination and improve comfort, but they cannot guarantee that irritation, infection or injury will never occur.

Lubrication and a Gradual Approach

The rectal area does not naturally produce sufficient lubrication for internal massage. A generous amount of suitable lubricant helps reduce dryness, friction and the possibility of tearing delicate tissue.

Internal touch should begin slowly, using gentle and controlled movement. More pressure is not necessarily more pleasurable, and the client should not feel expected to tolerate increasing intensity.

Additional lubricant, a different position or a complete pause may be needed whenever friction or discomfort develops.

Where latex gloves or condoms are being used, oil-based massage products should be avoided because they can weaken latex. A compatible water-based lubricant is generally a more appropriate choice.

Pain, Discomfort and Reasons to Stop

Prostate massage may create an unfamiliar feeling of pressure or fullness, but it should not cause sharp, persistent or increasing pain.

The experience should stop when there is:

• sharp or severe pain;
• rectal bleeding;
• burning or significant irritation;
• unexpected numbness;
• dizziness or feeling unwell;
• panic or emotional distress;
• difficulty maintaining a comfortable position; or
• any verbal or non-verbal request to stop.

Pain should never be treated as something the client must endure to complete the experience. Continuing through significant discomfort can increase the possibility of injury.

Persistent anal pain or rectal bleeding should be assessed by an appropriate healthcare professional. Heavy or continuous bleeding requires urgent medical attention.

Health Concerns and When Not to Proceed

Prostate massage should not proceed when the client has active rectal bleeding, significant anal pain, a suspected infection, a painful fissure, inflamed haemorrhoids, unexplained sores or recent surgery affecting the prostate or rectal area.

Medical advice should also be sought when someone is experiencing symptoms such as:

• pain or burning when urinating;
• difficulty urinating;
• needing to urinate unusually frequently;
• pain in the penis, testicles or bottom;
• painful ejaculation; or
• a high temperature.

These can be associated with prostatitis or another condition requiring proper clinical assessment.

The companion should not attempt to diagnose symptoms or reassure a client that a medical concern is harmless.

A Sensual Experience, Not Medical Treatment

Prostate massage offered through Bunnys of London should be presented as a consensual sensual experience. It is not a clinical prostate examination, medical treatment or substitute for professional healthcare.

It should not be promoted as a treatment for prostatitis, prostate enlargement, pelvic pain, erectile difficulties or another health condition.

Anyone experiencing persistent pain, urinary changes, bleeding or other prostate-related symptoms should consult a GP or suitably qualified healthcare professional.

A companion should only describe herself as medically trained or clinically qualified when she genuinely holds the appropriate recognised qualifications.

Toys and Equipment

Some companions may be comfortable using a purpose-designed prostate massager, while others may offer manual massage only. A toy should never be assumed to form part of the £50 option.

Where equipment is mutually accepted, it should:

• be specifically designed for anal use;
• have a secure, flared base;
• remain within an agreed size;
• be cleaned before and after use;
• be used with suitable lubricant;
• have a fresh barrier where required; and
• never be inserted forcefully.

The companion should explain what she proposes to use before contact begins. The client remains free to decline the equipment or request its careful removal at any time.

Consent to manual massage does not automatically provide consent to using a toy.

The £50 Additional Charge

The £50 prostate massage supplement is added to the selected companion’s standard appointment rate.

The complete cost may include:

• the companion’s usual appointment rate;
• the £50 prostate massage supplement;
• the selected duration;
• travel expenses;
• the London location; and
• any other arrangements confirmed beforehand.

The full amount should be agreed before the meeting. Paying the supplement does not provide unrestricted access or guarantee a technique that has not been specifically discussed and accepted.

The companion may also withdraw the option if a health, hygiene, comfort or consent concern arises. Any question concerning the £50 payment should follow the booking terms agreed in advance and must remain separate from her right to stop.

Privacy and Discretion

Interest in prostate stimulation can be deeply personal. Preferences and relevant health information shared during the enquiry should therefore be handled discreetly.

Neither person should be pressured to disclose unnecessary details about their sexual orientation, relationships, previous partners or medical history. Only information genuinely relevant to consent, health and comfort needs to be discussed.

Photography, video and audio recording require separate and explicit permission. Consent to prostate massage does not include permission to record, retain or share any part of the appointment.

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Profiles displayed on this page may include photographs, London locations, availability, standard rates, reviews and stated preferences where provided.

Visitors should read the selected profile carefully before submitting an enquiry. Massage techniques, internal and external options, glove and toy policies, experience levels and personal boundaries vary between companions.

Bunnys of London encourages mature adult communication in which patience, hygiene, agreed boundaries, safewords, trust and mutual respect remain central throughout every prostate massage appointment.