Prostate Massage £30 Extra

Prostate massage can mean different things to different people. Some clients may be interested in gentle external pressure around the perineal area, while others may wish to discuss internal stimulation through the rectal wall.

A respectful enquiry should clarify:

• whether the £30 option is currently available;
• whether the companion offers external or internal massage;
• the client’s previous experience;
• preferred pressure and pace;
• glove and lubricant requirements;
• whether a toy may be considered;
• areas or activities that are unavailable;
• relevant health concerns;
• verbal or non-verbal stop signals; and
• the complete appointment price.

A client who has never experienced prostate massage should say so. This allows the companion to decide whether she is comfortable accepting a beginner and whether a particularly gradual approach would be appropriate.

A Sensual Experience, Not Medical Treatment

Prostate massage offered through Bunnys of London should be understood as a consensual sensual experience. It is not a clinical examination, medical treatment or substitute for advice from a doctor.

It should not be promoted as a treatment for prostatitis, prostate enlargement, pelvic pain, erectile difficulties or another health condition. Prostate Cancer UK states that there is no strong scientific evidence supporting prostate massage as a treatment for prostatitis.

Anyone experiencing ongoing pain, urinary changes or prostate-related symptoms should consult a GP or qualified healthcare professional rather than seeking diagnosis or treatment during an adult appointment.

Consent and Agreed Boundaries

Consent must be freely given, informed, specific and ongoing. Agreement to prostate massage does not provide unrestricted permission for anal penetration, toys or any other contact that has not been separately discussed.

Either adult may:

• limit the experience to external massage;
• decline internal stimulation;
• request less pressure;
• ask for more lubricant;
• change position;
• pause for a check-in;
• withdraw permission for a particular technique; or
• stop the experience completely.

The client’s comfort is important, but the companion’s boundaries have equal weight. She may decline a position, technique, toy or level of contact even when the £30 supplement has previously been discussed.

Physical arousal, silence, a prior appointment or payment should never be treated as consent.

Safewords and Non-Verbal Signals

An unmistakable communication system can help both adults feel more confident during prostate massage.

The traffic-light system may be used:

Green means the pace, pressure and contact feel comfortable.

Amber means reduce the pressure, slow down or pause for a check-in.

Red means stop immediately and withdraw carefully.

Ordinary phrases such as “gentler,” “less pressure,” “pause” and “stop” are equally valid.

A non-verbal signal may also be agreed, such as raising an open hand or tapping an agreed number of times. This can be helpful when the client finds speaking difficult because of their position or emotional response.

Pulling away, becoming suddenly tense or attempting to change position should prompt an immediate pause, even when a safeword has not been used.

Trust, Vulnerability and Sexual Wellbeing

Prostate massage can involve emotional as well as physical vulnerability. A client may feel self-conscious about their body, uncertain about what to expect or concerned about how their interest will be perceived.

From a sex-positive therapeutic perspective, curiosity about prostate stimulation does not determine a person’s sexual orientation. Physical pleasure and sexual identity are separate, and consensual exploration should not be treated as something shameful.

A considerate companion should not ridicule nervousness, inexperience or physical responses. The client must show the same respect and recognise that the companion is an equal participant rather than someone whose boundaries become secondary because an additional fee has been offered.

Trust develops through patience, honest feedback and the knowledge that either adult can pause or stop without criticism.

Hygiene and Barrier Protection

Good hygiene is especially important where internal massage is being considered.

Preparation may include:

• thoroughly washed hands;
• short, smooth fingernails;
• removed rings or sharp jewellery;
• a new single-use glove;
• clean towels;
• suitable lubricant; and
• properly cleaned equipment where applicable.

Prostate Cancer UK describes clinical prostate massage as being performed with a gloved finger and lubricating gel for comfort. The same basic hygiene principles can help reduce contamination and friction during a consensual adult experience.

A glove should be changed before touching another body area. Any toy should be cleaned before and after use, and equipment should not be transferred between people or body areas without appropriate cleaning or barrier replacement.

Hygiene precautions can reduce some risks, but they cannot guarantee that irritation, injury or infection will not occur.

Lubrication and a Gradual Approach

The rectal area does not naturally provide sufficient lubrication for internal stimulation. Plenty of suitable lubricant should therefore be used to reduce friction and discomfort.

NHS guidance recommends water-based lubricant for anal contact and warns that oil-based products can weaken latex condoms. Water-based or silicone-based lubricants are compatible with latex barriers, whereas oil-based products should be avoided when latex is being used.

Internal touch should begin slowly, using gentle and controlled movement. The purpose is not to tolerate increasing pressure or complete a predetermined routine.

More pressure is not necessarily more pleasurable. Additional lubricant, a change of position or a complete pause may be needed whenever friction or discomfort develops.

Discomfort and Reasons to Stop

Prostate massage may produce an unfamiliar sensation of pressure, but it should not cause sharp, persistent or increasing pain.

The experience should stop when there is:

• sharp or severe pain;
• rectal bleeding;
• burning or significant irritation;
• unexpected numbness;
• dizziness or feeling unwell;
• panic or emotional distress;
• difficulty maintaining a comfortable position; or
• any verbal or non-verbal request to stop.

Persistent pain or unexplained rectal bleeding should not be ignored. NHS guidance advises seeking medical advice for concerning or continuing rectal bleeding, with urgent help required for heavy or non-stop bleeding.

The companion should never attempt to diagnose the cause of pain or provide medical reassurance beyond encouraging the client to obtain appropriate professional advice.

Health Concerns and When Not to Proceed

Prostate massage should not proceed when the client has active rectal bleeding, significant pain, a suspected infection, a painful anal fissure, inflamed haemorrhoids, unexplained sores or recent surgery affecting the area.

Medical advice should also be sought where someone is experiencing symptoms such as:

• pain or burning when urinating;
• difficulty urinating;
• needing to urinate more frequently;
• pain in the penis, testicles or bottom;
• painful ejaculation; or
• a high temperature.

These can be symptoms of prostatitis and require assessment by a healthcare professional.

Anyone with a diagnosed prostate condition, recent prostate procedure or upcoming PSA blood test should ask their doctor whether prostate stimulation is appropriate. Prostate stimulation can temporarily affect PSA levels, and Prostate Cancer UK advises avoiding it before a PSA test.

Toys and Equipment

Some companions may be comfortable using a purpose-designed prostate massager, while others may offer manual massage only. Toys should never be assumed to form part of the £30 option.

Where a toy is mutually accepted, it should:

• be specifically designed for anal use;
• have a secure, flared base;
• remain within an agreed size;
• be cleaned before and after use;
• be used with suitable lubricant;
• have an appropriate barrier where required; and
• never be inserted forcefully.

The companion should explain what she intends to use before contact begins. The client remains free to decline the toy or request its careful removal at any point.

The £30 Additional Charge

The £30 prostate massage supplement is added to the selected companion’s standard appointment rate.

The complete price may include:

• the companion’s usual rate;
• the £30 prostate massage supplement;
• the selected duration;
• travel expenses;
• the London location; and
• any other arrangements confirmed beforehand.

Paying the supplement does not provide unrestricted access or guarantee a technique that has not been specifically accepted.

The companion may also withdraw the option if a health, hygiene, comfort or consent concern arises. Any question concerning the £30 payment should be handled according to the booking terms agreed in advance and must remain separate from her right to stop.

Privacy and Discretion

Interest in prostate stimulation can be deeply personal. Preferences and relevant health information shared during the enquiry should therefore be handled discreetly.

Neither person should be pressured to disclose unnecessary information about their sexual orientation, relationships, previous partners or medical history. Only details genuinely relevant to consent, comfort and health need to be discussed.

Photography, video and audio recording require separate and explicit permission. Consent to prostate massage does not include permission to record, retain or share any part of the experience.

Browse Prostate Massage £30 Profiles

Profiles displayed on this page may include photographs, London locations, availability, standard rates, reviews and stated preferences where provided.

Visitors should read each profile carefully before submitting an enquiry. Massage techniques, internal or external options, glove and toy policies, experience levels and personal boundaries vary between companions.

Bunnys of London encourages mature adult communication in which patience, hygiene, clear boundaries, safewords, trust and mutual respect remain central throughout every prostate massage appointment.