The £100 supplement reflects a specific appointment option rather than unrestricted consent. It does not provide automatic permission for every form of oral contact or for any related activity that has not been separately discussed.

Before the meeting, it may be helpful to clarify:

• whether the £100 OWO option is currently available;
• the companion’s personal boundaries;
• hygiene and preparation expectations;
• whether any ejaculation-related request is excluded;
• circumstances in which a condom would be required;
• safer-sex expectations for the remainder of the appointment;
• clear words or signals for pausing; and
• the complete appointment price.

The discussion should remain concise and respectful. A companion is entitled to decline the option without being pressured to justify her decision.

Consent Remains Essential

Consent must be voluntary, informed, specific and ongoing. Agreeing to an OWO appointment does not mean agreeing to every possible interaction, and consent to one activity must never be assumed to include another.

Either adult may:

• request a change of pace;
• establish an additional boundary;
• decide that a condom is required;
• decline a related request;
• pause for a check-in;
• use an agreed stop signal; or
• end the interaction completely.

Consent may be withdrawn after the appointment has been confirmed, after the £100 supplement has been discussed or after the interaction has begun. Payment does not override personal choice.

A respectful client accepts a change of mind without questioning, bargaining or attempting to persuade the companion to continue.

Discussing Personal Boundaries

OWO can mean different things to different people. The general category describes oral contact without a condom, but it does not define the duration, pace or every related preference.

The companion may establish boundaries concerning:

• the position or style of the interaction;
• the level of control retained by each person;
• hand placement;
• depth or pace;
• ejaculation;
• whether the activity may be repeated;
• visible symptoms or hygiene concerns; and
• circumstances that would bring the activity to an end.

These boundaries should be treated as firm conditions rather than a starting point for negotiation.

From a sex-positive therapeutic perspective, discussing boundaries does not reduce spontaneity. It creates a clearer emotional framework in which both adults can relax because they understand what has and has not been agreed.

Safewords and Non-Verbal Signals

A formal safeword may not always be necessary, but oral contact can make ordinary speech difficult. Both adults should therefore agree on a simple and unmistakable way to communicate.

A traffic-light system may be used:

Green means the pace and contact feel comfortable.

Amber means slow down, make an adjustment or pause for a check-in.

Red means stop immediately.

A non-verbal signal may also be agreed, such as tapping the other person’s hand or raising an open palm. Any agreed signal must be recognised immediately.

Pulling away, becoming tense or attempting to create distance should also be treated as a reason to stop and check in. Silence or a lack of physical resistance should never automatically be interpreted as enthusiastic consent.

Safer-Sex Awareness

Oral sex without a condom can transmit sexually transmitted infections. NHS guidance explains that oral sex can be made safer by using a condom and that the possibility of transmission increases when cuts or sores are present around the mouth or genitals.

Possible infections transmitted through oral contact include gonorrhoea, herpes, syphilis and other STIs. Some infections may be present without immediately noticeable symptoms, so a person’s appearance or verbal reassurance cannot confirm their sexual-health status.

Regular screening can support informed sexual-health decisions, but a recent negative result does not create an obligation to accept unprotected contact. Anyone worried following sex without a condom can obtain confidential advice and testing from an NHS sexual-health clinic.

Symptoms and Reasons Not to Proceed

The OWO option should not proceed when either person has symptoms or concerns that could indicate an infection.

These may include:

• an active cold sore;
• unexplained blisters or sores;
• bleeding gums;
• mouth ulcers;
• unusual discharge;
• irritation or pain;
• a significant unexplained sore throat; or
• a recent STI diagnosis that has not been fully treated.

NHS guidance advises avoiding sex, including oral sex without a condom, when an STI is suspected until appropriate testing or assessment has taken place.

A companion may also decide that OWO is unsuitable because of a hygiene concern, discomfort or uncertainty that develops during the meeting. Her decision should be accepted immediately.

Trust and Emotional Responsibility

OWO may feel particularly intimate because it involves an increased level of physical vulnerability and sexual-health trust. That trust should never be treated as entitlement.

A client should not interpret a companion’s willingness to discuss OWO as proof of attraction, and a companion should not feel required to proceed simply because the supplement has been agreed.

From a sexual-wellbeing perspective, trust is established through:

• honest communication;
• respect for hesitation;
• acceptance of changing boundaries;
• attention to body language;
• discretion;
• calm responses to a refusal; and
• responsible sexual-health choices.

Both desire and caution can exist at the same time. A person may initially consider the option and later decide that the circumstances do not feel right.

Hygiene and Personal Preparation

Good personal hygiene helps create a more respectful and comfortable environment, although hygiene alone cannot prevent the transmission of an STI.

Clients should arrive freshly showered and communicate openly about any relevant symptoms or recent health concerns. The companion may also establish preparation requirements as a condition of considering OWO.

Strong fragrances, attempts to conceal symptoms or claims of being “completely safe” should not replace honest communication. No sexual contact is entirely without risk, and neither person should be pressured to ignore a concern.

The £100 Additional Charge

The £100 OWO supplement is charged in addition to the companion’s standard rate.

The final amount may include:

• the companion’s normal appointment rate;
• the £100 OWO supplement;
• the chosen duration;
• travel expenses;
• the London location; and
• any other arrangements confirmed in advance.

The full cost should be agreed before the meeting. Paying the supplement does not guarantee that OWO will proceed if the companion later feels uncomfortable or identifies a health, hygiene or consent concern.

Where the option does not proceed, any question concerning the supplement should be handled according to the terms agreed during the booking process. The discussion should remain separate from the companion’s right to withdraw consent.

Privacy and Discretion

Sexual-health information and personal preferences shared during the enquiry should be treated discreetly. Neither person should be pressured to disclose unnecessary details about previous partners, relationships or their private life.

Photography, video and audio recording require separate, explicit permission. Consent to OWO or another intimate activity does not include consent to record or share the appointment.

Bunnys of London encourages responsible adult communication in which sexual-health awareness, personal choice, agreed boundaries, trust and mutual respect remain central throughout every appointment.

Frequently Asked Questions