Fetish

Fetishes can be deeply personal, and some clients may feel nervous or embarrassed when discussing them for the first time. A professional conversation should be calm, respectful and free from ridicule.

A considerate enquiry can briefly explain:

• the particular fetish or theme;
• whether it involves clothing, objects, role play or sensory elements;
• the preferred atmosphere or dynamic;
• the client’s previous experience;
• any items the client intends to bring;
• activities that are completely excluded;
• the desired level of participation; and
• any safewords or communication needs.

There is no need to provide an unnecessarily graphic account. Clear information allows the companion to decide whether the interest is compatible with her own experience, comfort and boundaries.

Consent and Clearly Agreed Boundaries

Consent must be voluntary, informed, specific and ongoing. Agreement to one fetish does not imply agreement to related activities, and a companion should never be expected to accept an unexpected variation during the meeting.

Before the appointment, both adults should understand:

• what has been agreed;
• what remains prohibited;
• which person will lead the experience;
• whether touching, role play or particular language is included;
• whether specialist clothing or equipment will be used;
• how either person can request a change; and
• what will cause the experience to stop.

Either person may slow down, pause or withdraw consent at any time. A profile listing, previous appointment or payment does not create unrestricted permission.

Safewords and Communication

Safewords can be useful whenever an experience includes role play, power exchange, sensory restriction or emotionally intense language.

A simple traffic-light system may be agreed:

Green means the experience feels comfortable and may continue.

Amber means slow down, adjust the intensity or pause for a check-in.

Red means stop immediately.

A non-verbal signal should also be discussed when speaking may become difficult. This could involve raising a hand, repeated tapping or another unmistakable movement.

Safewords and stop signals must always be respected immediately. They should never be ignored to maintain a character, fantasy or agreed role.

Trust and Emotional Wellbeing

Fetish experiences can create feelings of excitement, vulnerability, confidence or emotional release. Some people may be exploring an interest they have kept private for many years, making discretion and reassurance especially important.

From a sex-positive therapeutic perspective, a healthy fetish experience is one in which the interest can be expressed without shame while everyone remains respected as an individual.

A companion should not be treated as a prop or accessory to a fantasy. She remains an active participant with her own preferences, emotions and ability to decline or redirect the experience.

Likewise, clients should not be mocked or judged for respectfully sharing a lawful adult interest. Open communication helps both people decide whether they are compatible.

Clothing, Props and Personal Items

Some fetish appointments may involve particular clothing, materials, footwear, costumes or props. Any item brought to the meeting should be disclosed beforehand and must be clean, safe and suitable for shared use.

The companion may choose not to wear, handle or use an item that feels unhygienic, unsafe or outside her boundaries. Expensive, fragile or personally significant belongings should also be discussed carefully to avoid damage or misunderstanding.

No recording equipment, hidden cameras or surveillance devices should ever be introduced. Photographs, video or audio recording require separate and explicit consent.

Intensity and Physical Safety

Some fetish interests are primarily visual or psychological, while others may include physical sensations or controlled power dynamics. The intensity should always match the experience and comfort of everyone involved.

Health conditions, allergies, mobility restrictions or skin sensitivities that directly affect the proposed experience should be mentioned beforehand. Anything causing pain, panic, breathing difficulty, numbness or unexpected distress should stop immediately.

Higher-risk activities should not be assumed simply because a companion appears within a general fetish category. Specialist requests require specific experience, preparation and agreement.

Privacy and Discretion

A fetish may be something a client shares with very few people. Personal information disclosed during the appointment should therefore be treated with discretion.

Neither person should be pressured to reveal unnecessary details about their legal identity, home, family or employment. Private interests should not be recorded, shared online or discussed with others without explicit permission.

Discretion works both ways. Clients must also respect the companion’s identity, images, boundaries and personal information.

Browse Fetish Profiles

Profiles displayed on this page may include photographs, videos, London locations, working hours, rates, reviews and stated interests where available.

Visitors should read each profile carefully before submitting an enquiry. Fetish preferences, experience levels, available dynamics and boundaries vary considerably between companions.

Bunnys of London encourages mature adult communication in which trust, privacy, safewords, clearly agreed limits and mutual respect remain central throughout every fetish appointment.