DP

Clear communication is particularly important because different people may use the term DP to describe different experiences. A respectful enquiry should explain the general arrangement being considered without using demanding or unnecessarily graphic language.

Before confirming a meeting, everyone should understand:

• who will be participating;
• the forms of penetration being discussed;
• whether toys form part of the proposed experience;
• the preferred pace and positioning;
• activities that are completely unavailable;
• protection and hygiene requirements;
• words or signals for slowing down or stopping; and
• whether any additional rate applies.

No participant should be introduced unexpectedly. Every adult involved must know who will be present and agree to the proposed arrangement before the appointment begins.

Consent Belongs to Every Participant

DP may involve three or more adults, meaning that each person’s consent must be obtained independently. Agreement from one participant does not provide consent on behalf of anyone else.

Consent must be freely given, informed, specific and ongoing. Someone may agree to one form of penetration while declining another, and any participant can withdraw consent at any stage.

A profile category, previous meeting or confirmed payment does not provide unrestricted permission. Each companion may establish conditions, change the proposed arrangement or decide not to proceed if she feels uncomfortable.

Safewords and Clear Stop Signals

Although safewords are often associated with BDSM, they can also be useful during any complex or physically intense experience.

A simple traffic-light system may be agreed:

Green means the pace and experience feel comfortable.

Amber means slow down, adjust the position or pause for a check-in.

Red means stop immediately.

A non-verbal signal should also be established in case speaking becomes difficult. This could be a repeated tap, hand movement or another unmistakable action.

Every participant must be able to see or recognise the signal and respond without delay.

Comfort, Positioning and Physical Awareness

DP should never be rushed. The companion should have meaningful control over positioning, depth, pace and her ability to pause or move away.

Participants should remain attentive to signs of discomfort, including pain, panic, numbness, bleeding or difficulty communicating. These are reasons to stop and reassess rather than continue through pressure.

From a sex-positive therapeutic perspective, the experience should not be approached as a test of endurance or performance. The quality of the interaction depends on communication, patience and how safely everyone responds to one another.

Protection, Lubrication and Hygiene

Penetrative sex can transmit sexually transmitted infections, and anal penetration carries a higher transmission risk than many other sexual activities. Condoms and suitable lubricant can reduce risk and friction.

A new condom should be used for each participant and when changing between anal and vaginal penetration. A condom must not be transferred from one person or body area to another.

Water-based or silicone-based lubricant should be used with latex condoms. Oils, body lotions and massage oils can weaken latex and increase the risk of condom failure.

Any toys involved should be cleaned appropriately and fitted with a new condom when transferred between participants or body areas.

Trust and Emotional Awareness

DP can involve heightened vulnerability because several people are participating simultaneously. Even an experienced person may experience unexpected nervousness, overstimulation or emotional discomfort.

Everyone should be treated as an equal participant rather than as an accessory to someone else’s fantasy. No person should be ignored while attention is focused elsewhere, and no one should feel pressured to continue because others remain enthusiastic.

A calm introduction and regular check-ins can help establish trust. Afterwards, participants may appreciate reassurance, water, quiet conversation or personal space, depending on their individual preferences.

Rates and Appointment Arrangements

DP may require additional planning, participants, time or preparation. Rates therefore vary between companions and according to the arrangement being requested.

The complete cost may depend on:

• the selected companion’s rate;
• the number of participants;
• the appointment duration;
• the London location;
• travel requirements; and
• any additional options agreed beforehand.

The total rate and proposed arrangement should be confirmed before the appointment. Payment never overrides personal boundaries or guarantees an activity that has not been expressly accepted.

Browse DP Escort Profiles

Profiles displayed on this page may include photographs, videos, London locations, availability, rates, reviews and stated preferences where provided.

Visitors should read each profile carefully before submitting an enquiry. Experience, preferred arrangements, protection requirements and personal boundaries vary between companions.

Bunnys of London encourages mature adult communication in which preparation, trust, safer-sex awareness, consent and individual choice remain central throughout every DP appointment.