Disabled Clients

Clear communication can help both people understand what will make the appointment comfortable and accessible. Clients do not need to disclose their complete medical history or diagnosis. However, it is helpful to explain any practical information that directly affects the meeting.

This may include:

• wheelchair or mobility access;
• assistance with entering the venue;
• hearing, speech or visual communication needs;
• additional time required for changing or positioning;
• sensitivity to noise, lighting, touch or fragrances;
• the presence of a personal assistant or carer;
• the use of medical or mobility equipment; and
• any relevant health or safety considerations.

The purpose of sharing this information is not to invite judgement. It allows the companion and agency to consider whether the location and proposed arrangement can reasonably meet the client’s needs.

Accessibility and Choosing a Suitable Venue

Not every hotel, apartment or private venue offers the same level of accessibility. Before confirming an appointment, clients should check practical details such as step-free access, lift dimensions, accessible bathrooms, doorway widths and the distance between the entrance and meeting room.

Where a client uses a wheelchair, walking aid or other equipment, the agency should be given enough information to help identify a suitable location. A companion may also need to consider whether she can provide the type of practical assistance being requested.

Companions are not automatically trained carers, nurses or medical professionals. Any requirement for lifting, transferring, personal care or specialist support must be discussed beforehand and should not be assumed.

Consent, Independence and Personal Choice

Disability does not remove a person’s right to make decisions about intimacy. Every appointment must involve adults who can understand the proposed arrangement, communicate their wishes and give voluntary consent.

Consent belongs equally to the client and the companion. Both people may establish boundaries, decline an activity, ask for a pause or end the meeting at any time.

A companion should speak directly to the client whenever possible, even when a carer, interpreter or personal assistant is present. Support professionals may help with communication or practical arrangements, but they should not make intimate decisions on behalf of an adult who is able to express their own preferences.

Comfort, Confidence and Body Image

Some disabled adults may have experienced reduced confidence, social isolation or assumptions about their sexuality. A considerate appointment can provide a space where the person feels recognised as an adult with individual interests rather than being defined by their disability.

From a sex-positive therapeutic perspective, comfort often develops through patience, conversation and responsive communication. Neither person should feel rushed to create immediate chemistry.

Clients may wish to discuss comfortable positions, reduced movement, pain, fatigue or areas of the body that should be approached carefully. These conversations can be practical and respectful without becoming clinical or intrusive.

Communication Needs

Some clients may communicate through speech, writing, sign language, communication devices or agreed physical signals. The preferred method should be discussed before the appointment.

When verbal communication may be difficult, both adults can agree on simple signals meaning:

• continue;
• slow down;
• change position;
• pause; or
• stop.

These signals must remain easy to use and should always be respected immediately. A person’s communication style should never be mistaken for a lack of understanding, personality or consent.

Carers and Personal Assistants

A client may need a carer or personal assistant to help with travel, entering the venue, transferring or preparing for the meeting. Their involvement should be explained clearly when making the enquiry.

The companion should know:

• whether the support person will enter the venue;
• what practical assistance they will provide;
• when they will leave;
• whether they will remain nearby; and
• how the client wishes their privacy to be protected.

The carer or assistant should only remain present during the private appointment when every adult involved has explicitly agreed.

Rates and Appointment Timing

Disabled clients are entitled to clear and respectful pricing. The companion’s usual rate will generally apply, although additional time, travel or special venue arrangements may affect the final cost.

Allowing a longer appointment may be helpful where the client needs more time to enter the venue, communicate, change position or take breaks. Any additional time and charges should be confirmed before the meeting rather than introduced unexpectedly.

Browse Profiles Welcoming Disabled Clients

Profiles displayed on this page may include photographs, videos, London locations, availability, rates, reviews and individual preferences where provided.

Clients should read the selected profile carefully before submitting an enquiry. Explain any essential access or communication requirements in a straightforward way so the agency can determine whether the companion and venue are suitable.

Bunnys of London encourages considerate adult communication in which accessibility, dignity, independence, consent and personal choice remain central throughout every appointment.